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The Hidden Cost of Independence: Understanding Dependency Shame and Modern Addictions
In my psychotherapy practice, I frequently encounter a peculiar paradox: while humans are fundamentally wired for inter- dependence, as...

Jennifer Cantor


Personality and Loneliness: Why One Size Doesn't Fit All
As a psychologist, one of the most striking patterns I've observed in treating loneliness is how differently introverts and extraverts...

Jennifer Cantor


The Evolutionary Roots of Loneliness: Why Connection Matters
In the bustling modern world of digital connections and urban anonymity, loneliness has emerged as a pressing public health concern, one...

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The Value of Healthy Protest: Reconsidering Our Relationship with Anger
In our society, anger often gets a bad rap. We tend to view it as a destructive force, something to be suppressed or eliminated. As a...

Jennifer Cantor


Looking Inward: Moving Beyond Quick Judgments of Others
How often do we encounter someone's behavior that bothers or frustrates us, and immediately jump to conclusions about their character?...

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Understanding Household Standards: Beyond the "Neat vs. Messy" Dynamic
One of the most common sources of conflict I encounter in couples therapy centers around different standards for household cleanliness...

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The Ripple Effect: Sage-ing in Community
The 5th post in our series on Aging with Wisdom We've been exploring how to approach aging with wisdom, drawing on ancient traditions and...

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Modern Sage Practices: Ancient Wisdom for Today's World
The 4th post in our series on Aging with Wisdom In an era of viral TikTok dances and Instagram filters, talking about becoming a "sage"...

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Elder Wisdom: What World Cultures Can Teach Us About Sage-ing
The third post in our series on Aging with Wisdom In our fast-paced Western world, where youth is idolized and change happens at the...

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The Paradox of Growth: Emptying and Filling in Later Life
Examining the cycles of emptying and filling that characterize our lives with particular poignance as we age.

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From Aging to Sage-ing*: A Fresh Look at Growing Older
When we talk about getting older in our culture, the conversation typically revolves around what we're losing – youth, vitality,...

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Therapy in Small Doses: A Different Approach to Mental Health Support
Find out more about "therapy in small doses" and how this focused and flexible approach may benefit you.

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The Complex Psychology of Victims and Perpetrators: Lessons from Cinderella
The Brothers Grimm version of Cinderella reveals psychological dynamics that mirror patterns we see in families and societies.

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The relationships that challenge us to grow
In my clinical experience, however, all meaningful relationships have their hiccups, and distancing ourselves without offering...

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Why I sought training in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and why you might benefit from working with an EMDR provider
EMDR was initially developed to treat symptoms associated with trauma.

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